The Sorcerer's Apprentice Esoteric Forum

[Infoburst: this message was truncated due to a fault in the system - leah, please repost]

[Infoburst: Let's not be so parochial; there's a big difference between love and sex. Extra marital sex is an agreed arrangement in some marriages where one partner is insatiable. A person can love more than one individual at once. Marabas teaches free-thinkers to step back to get a proper perspective. Christianity imposes monogamy but in many areas of the world polygamy is normal. As M always says - there is no right or wrong way to live. If this guy is being immature then he will learn along the way. Whether the gods will love him regardless is another matter! ;-)BB Denise W]

[Infoburst: Balancing all the multifarious psychic and cosmic tides can be impossible but they aren't an on/off switch and so come and go over a few days enabling you to make best use of them and interpolate to get the maximum all-round energies. For instance by working,a lovespell on the Friday following Samhain/Halloween (2008) ad the hour of Venus. Halloween is traditional for Romance magic to divine, for example, whether your lover is true, and what your true love might look like etc., and of course you can still do this as well as work your lovespell the following Friday. If you do not yet understand about the planetary, and cosmic tides, planetary times etc in your magic you should obtain Marabas's Occult Year Planner which not only gives timings and phases, cycles etc., but also teaches you how to use them and other needed forces in your magic.

You can download it instantly from here. BB Denise W.

All Lovespells are NOT equal. Read my posts earlier in this thread about most of them being a waste of time and why S.A. spells are therefore so much more valuable. Just because you've done three doesn't mean magic doesn't work - it means you haven't yet come across the right key for the right lock. The myriad of interpersonal human needs coupled with the extreme complexity of the cultures and domestic situations of some contributors mean that one has to apply the magic to suit the particular circumstances and to suggest that one size spell would fit all in such extreme circumstances is trite. You for instance do not apparently want to twin your destiny with another for true love - you just want sex. In which case use

Ruthvah, it's a sexual attractant. Don't use a LOVE spell unless you want love. The gods knew exactly what they were doing when they denied you a result but your lack of wisdom meant you couldn't see the message they were giving. BB Denise W. ]

[Infoburst; Just to clarify, is this a female to female lovespell you are working because the balance of energies in the rite has to be accounted for in such an instance. BB Denise W.]