Oklahoma City Lesbian Message Board
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RE: Anti-Valentines day?
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posted by Faith
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Sorry to say but for many women in America. V-Day is abit depressing when Alone. I myself am not much into the day because its the day that just about everyone of my Ex's broke my heart.(yeah gotta love that....) My last ex has her B-day the day after valentine's, and Sence she is the only girl I have actually be in love with (love at first sight) Its a real gut rencher. Its been 2 years sence I have been with her and 2 years sence I have even been in a relationship. I have tried to go out to look just reciently, alas I sat there for 4 hours and no one would talk to me. even the few people I tried to strike up a conversation with pretty much ignored me. I use to be able to walk into a club and girls would ask me to dance. now I just sit there alone. and yes this is what I did with my V-day... and yes it made things even worse. But I hope anyone who reads this, the next time when at a club or bar in OKC you see a girl sitting alone looking pretty much scared out of her wits alone. TALK TO HER ITS ME!! :P But on a solid note. If you have friends that are feeling lonely Valentines day. do something with them durring the DAY and maybe take your love out later to celebrate. then maybe you can bring some hope to that person and heck maybe while your out they will meet the person they are destined to be with the rest of their life. and they might just thank you for it in the long run!
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RE: Anti-Valentines day?
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posted by Kaci
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Yeah. there are alot of things worse than being single on v-day. alot og people were calling it single awareness day haha. i thought it was funny. i just got candy for my friends and parents, and i am going to work later. its nice being around so many people all day. but its really not that bad of a day.
thank you both for the replies and the advice =]
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RE: Anti-Valentines day?
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posted by Molly
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One can look at Valentine's Day any number of ways. VD was very hard for me the first couple of years after my break-up--not because I was single but b/c it was around VD when the friendship between my ex and I started getting deeper. But now, hell, I buy myself something for Valentine's Day and reflect on where I've been and where I'm going to and how I wouldn't be where I'm at now if it weren't for the experiences I've had in my life. There are worse things than being single on VD.
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RE: Anti-Valentines day?
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posted by Molly
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Hey MeLissa--Kaci is one of the columnists for the web site--our youngest columnist--check out her columns if you haven't already. Love the wind of fortune:-)
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RE: Anti-Valentines day?
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posted by Lissa
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Just another reason to feel lonely?! Dang girl! Valentines day is a day to celebrate love, not just intimate, romantic love but love of all kinds! I work on V-day (as it's known in my restaurant) but we all buy each other those silly little kid valentines and some candy because we're all friends, and we're glad about it, if you see it as another day to feel lonely every sappy pop ballaid, or cheesey chick-flick would cause some sorta depression. Darlin' i don't know you from Eve, but something i've learned is there are 2 things you can count on in life 1. the wind of fortune will always blow 2. it will always change direction (sometimes behind you pushing you on, and sometimes in front of you holdin you back) CELEBRATE!
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Anti-Valentines day?
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posted by Kaci
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A lot of my friends are not celebrating valentines day this year, because, it seems that its just another reason to feel lonely. im not sure about this. yeah, it makes people feel lonely but...still. its just another day. and why not spend it with friends?
whats everyone else doing for Valentines day?
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