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RE: triplets
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posted by dmlgirl
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Andy, OK, that's what I thought you meant, but wasn't sure because it was a little generalized. I agree. I hate when people call one slap on the hand or the butt "spanking". I don't consider that spanking- it's just an attention-grabber. I have no problems with that. I also don't think spanking (as in several swats) if done minimally and non-abusively is nearly as "trauma-inducing" and horrible as all the psychs would have you believe. If I had kids, I personally couldn't do it, but I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
And the parents said they broke several spoons but they SAID it wasn't during spankings. One kid broke it on a table and then she kind of trailed off. I wonder though because those spoons break pretty easily. Seeing them use a fork in the video cracked me up!
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RE: triplets
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posted by Andy
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Hi, dmlgirl, good day? thanks for the reply... more specifically, using a wooden fork? Should be a spoon, I'm doubt it broke because of the spanking, maybe their daughter sabotaged it;) Or poor quality spoon! Anyway, of course kids know how to get their own way, in my opinion they are testing the boundaries as a natural part of growing up, in the hope that there are some. Not explaining this too well, but if a kid feels they can't be put right, they tend to feel the parents don't love them enough. I know exactly what I mean, and will try to explain it better next time lol. I'm happy to chat on yahoo btw..
So spanking is only one part of the above, but at the risk of being seen as some kind of fossil, I think it does still play a beneficial role in some families. Have a good day, Andrew
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more specific
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posted by andy
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Hi, thanks for the reply... more specifically, using a wooden fork? Should be a spoon, I'm doubt it broke because of the spanking, maybe their daughter sabotaged it;) Or poor quality spoon! Anyway, of course kids know how to get their own way, in my opinion they are testing the boundaries as a natural part of growing up, in the hope that there are some. Not explaining this too well, but if a kid feels they can't be put right, they tend to feel the parents don't love them enough. I know exactly what I mean, and will try to explain it better next time lol. I'm happy to chat on yahoo btw..
So spanking is only one part of the above, but at the risk of being seen as some kind of fossil, I think it does still play a beneficial role in some families. Have a good day, Andrew
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RE: (Vid M/f F/f REAL) 4 real spankings on Supernanny, Mann family
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posted by Anonymous
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Spanked or not kids know how to get there way. She's still got mom to read her a book.
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RE: triplets
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posted by dmlgirl
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Oh, I forgot- yeah, I'm sure they are harder and more swats w/o cameras but did you notice it wasn't even actually a spoon!? It was a wooden fork. They broke all the wooden spoons. I hadn't realized that was the case when they showed the clip until I looked at it again and saw it was a fork! Lol! Can you imagine being like, "Yeah, my parents spanked me with a wooden fork!" Lol!
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RE: triplets
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posted by dmlgirl
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Andy, not really sure how your post applies to spanking. You'll need to be a little more specific. I do think there is a lot of modern parenting that has gotten ridiculously out of control in the opposite direction from where it used to be. Parents are too permissive, too nervous, too analytical, too involved (helicopter parents- the ones who hover), and unwilling to be the authority and make decisions for what's best for the kids. I swear, I can't stand seeing parents sitting there for a half an hour trying to negotiate with a 2 year old about putting on their shoes. It's not a therapy session- just put the shoes on the kid and go! Ugh!
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triplets
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posted by andy
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Typical.. 'if it aint broke don't fix it' All this modern thinking that the state knows better than parents is wrong... modern life thinks it's so clever and yet we are destroying society and the planet with too modern thinking. Too many petty rules arbitrarily applied don't help anyone...
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RE: (Vid M/f F/f REAL) 4 real spankings on Supernanny, Mann family
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posted by cinndunc
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True. I'm sure when the cameras are off the spankings are a bit harder.
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RE: (Vid M/f F/f REAL) 4 real spankings on Supernanny, Mann family
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posted by Anonymous
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What a weak spanking. Wish my parents were that easy to me.
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RE: (Vid M/f F/f REAL) 4 real spankings on Supernanny, Mann family
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posted by dmlgirl
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Good find. Interesting reference to the church group. Damn religious nuts. :)
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(Vid M/f F/f REAL) 4 real spankings on Supernanny, Mann family
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posted by Cinndunc
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Thanks to Jeff for the original text info.
Jeff tried to post this episode earlier, but that link didn't work outside of the US.
The Mann family has three daughters, two of them twins.
1. http://www.movieweb.com/tv/TEvpqAAA7CRVzz/VIOKIRSOBcFjTO
Naomi doesn't want to take a nap, and mom handspanks her three times. Naomi tries to spank her mother back!
2. http://www.movieweb.com/tv/TEvpqAAA7CRVzz/VIotRoqvKCinsp
Skip ahead to 0:56.
-Mom threatens Naomi with a spanking, and she apppears to obey.
-Mom spanks one of the twins twice.
-Dad puts one of his twins over his knee and lifts her skirt for a wooden spoon one-smacker on panties.
3. http://www.movieweb.com/tv/TEvpqAAA7CRVzz/VILMWOLLb5t4PP
Nora gets sent to her room, but refuses to stay. Mom bends her over her lap and spanks her twice while saying "I love you, but you disobeyed." Then Jo Frost goes into hysterics and mom confesses to spanking them sometimes with a wooden spoon.
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